Sitting back and watching the rain on a weekend afternoon. With each rain drop I drift deeper into my thoughts; thoughts of work, chores, routines, people, relationships, friendship, marriage.

I ponder over the 15 years of marriage; who we were, how we met, what brought us together and where we are today.

We started the journey together hand in hand and supporting each other, more so my husband supporting me and making me a stronger, smarter person).  With many common likes and dislikes but it seems that over time my husband, my friend, my partner has moved ahead a bit.

He seems to have found a new side to himself; a side which loves sports, enjoying a drink out with friends, more of an extrovert. While on the other hand I have become more introvert; happy to be at home; not much of a social person.

It is so true that time changes everything, I can definetly see that in us. I am at a crossroad - really happy for my husband and to see him have fun and enjoy himself but I am falling behind. His time is more occupied with work, sports and friends that I don't seem to get much time with him. We seem to be becoming more 'mates' than partners.

Maybe I am not making much of an effort in keeping up, maybe he can slow it down a bit. Time will tell what the next sip of life will bring.